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A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics. Founded 2021 · 7.6M members · text posts only

7.6M members. The best post we have captured here reached 61.7K upvotes, which works out to 8 per 1,000 members.

8peak upvotes per 1,000 members
7.6Mmembers
61.7Kbest post
25.8Kmost comments
1.3Kposts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

72% 28%
Question 72% Text 28%

The topics it labels

Flairs are the community's own categories, and the closest thing a subreddit has to telling you what it wants.

English Second Language 61 Under 18 (ages 13 to 17) 53 TW Abuse 30 Post Update 28 Hypothetical 28 Advice Needed 16 NSFW 11 TW SA 11 TW Self Harm 7 Not AITA post 2

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

AITAH for laughing in my SIL’s face when she DNA tested my daughter?

↑ 61.7K 💬 9.3K question 2024

AITAH for suing my cousin for 6K to pay for my hearing aides after he threw me in the pool

↑ 59.4K 💬 12K text 2024

AITAH for announcing our pregnancy at my brother's wedding after he proposed at mine.

↑ 53.5K 💬 3.2K text 2024

AITA for slapping a teenager?

↑ 47.7K 💬 9.8K question 2024

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition”

↑ 46.9K 💬 11.9K text 2024

AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results?

↑ 45.3K 💬 25.8K question 2023

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child?

↑ 45.2K 💬 18K question 2024

Update: I cut my wife off from our finances because she wouldn’t stop ordering takeout

↑ 43.7K 💬 3K text 2024

Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter.

↑ 43.4K 💬 15.3K text 2025

AITA for treating my coworker differently after she accused me of SA when i saved her live.

↑ 42.5K 💬 6.9K text 2025

Communities its size

Within four times the member count either way, so the comparison is fair. Sorted by upside.

r/AITAH, in numbers

Answered from the posts ViralHunt holds from this community, not from Reddit's own about page.

What is r/AITAH?
r/AITAH describes itself this way: A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics. It was founded in 2021 and has 7.6M members.
How many members does r/AITAH have?
r/AITAH has about 7.6M members. ViralHunt has tracked 1.3K of its posts; the biggest reached 61.7K upvotes, which is 8 per 1,000 members.
What is the most viral post on r/AITAH?
"AITAH for laughing in my SIL’s face when she DNA tested my daughter?" reached 61.7K upvotes and 9.3K comments in 2024, the highest score among the posts we hold from r/AITAH.
What subreddits are similar to r/AITAH?
Communities of a comparable size we track: r/interesting, r/antiwork, r/urbanexploration, r/youseeingthisshit, r/law, r/perfectlycutscreams.
What kind of posts do best on r/AITAH?
Of the posts we hold, 72% are question posts and 28% are text posts.
When is the best time to post on r/AITAH?
Across 1.3K timestamped posts we hold, the slots whose posts averaged the highest score are Thursday at 04:00 UTC (15.2K avg upvotes), Thursday at 05:00 UTC (14.5K avg upvotes), Tuesday at 17:00 UTC (13.5K avg upvotes). The busiest day is Sunday. For Reddit as a whole, see the best time to post on Reddit page.
How many upvotes does a post need to reach the top of r/AITAH?
The 20th-best post we hold from r/AITAH has 39K upvotes, so that is roughly the bar for the top twenty. We captured 611 posts from it in the last 30 days.

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